For years, Kenya has been trapped in a cycle of betrayal, false promises, and manipulation—much like a toxic relationship that refuses to end. Every election, leaders charm us with sweet words, only to disappoint us with corruption, incompetence, and selfish interests. It’s a pattern that feels eerily familiar, like the story Dido tells in her song End of Night.
The song captures the relief of walking away from a destructive relationship, after finally seeing things clearly after years of being deceived. Isn’t that exactly what Kenya needs? We keep giving the same political class second chances, hoping they will change, only to be left heartbroken again. But enough is enough. It’s time to take control.
Recognizing the Signs of a Toxic Leadership
Just as toxic relationships have red flags—lies, gaslighting, disrespect, and emotional abuse—Kenya’s political landscape is riddled with similar traits:
- Manipulation through tribal politics – Leaders divide us along ethnic lines to maintain power.
- Broken promises and economic mismanagement – High taxes, unemployment, and skyrocketing cost of living.
- Irresponsible borrowing and lack of accountability – The government takes loans recklessly without clear repayment plans or transparency on how funds are utilized.
- Leaders who refuse to listen to the people – Ignoring grievances and making self-serving deals instead of addressing national issues.
- Violence as a tool of control – Inciting chaos when they cannot manipulate the people.
- Deflection and blame games – Leaders refusing to take responsibility for national failures.
The Breaking Point: A Nation in Unrest
The frustration among Kenyans boiled over on June 25, 2024, during a day of widespread protests fueled by the government’s blatant disregard for its people. Lives were lost, property was destroyed, and instead of listening to the masses, the ruling class made a deal with the opposition. A deal that, instead of solving the country’s problems, is widely seen as protecting the political elite while leaving Kenyans to suffer under failed universal health coverage, opulence in government, corruption, misappropriation of funds, nepotism in appointments, conflict of interest when government officials do business with the state, and political interference in law enforcement. The size of government has also been increased to accommodate the opposition in government hence increasing the wage bill among other costs.
Then came March 23, 2025, during two major events—the WRC Safari Rally in Naivasha and the Kenya vs. Gabon AFCON qualification match at Nyayo Stadium. In both venues, chants and insults against political leaders filled the air, a testament to the growing anger over the struggles facing ordinary citizens.
However, events at Nyayo Stadium took a darker turn. Supporters of one political faction physically attacked an MP perceived to be pro-people. Instead of addressing grievances, some political leaders and their supporters escalated matters, turning it into an ethnic rivalry. Soon after, threats and hateful tribal rhetoric spread, reviving tensions that should have been long buried.
It’s clear that our political class has a well-worn modus operandi: when they cannot control the masses, they instigate violence. They have polarized the nation, and rather than de-escalate tensions, they continue to appear in public spaces where their presence only stirs chaos and using their grassroot mobilizers to pay goons to fight for them.
I hoped memories of the 2007/2008 post-election violence is still fresh in the minds of many Kenyans, yet here we are again, standing at the edge of a dangerous precipice. This politically charged darkness has lingered for too long, trapping us in an endless cycle of terror and division.
Breaking the Wheel: A New Dawn for Kenya
If we are to end the night and begin a new day, we must break the toxic wheel of bad leadership and tribal politics. The solutions are clear:
- Elect Wisely – Stop recycling leaders who thrive on corruption and deceit.
- Reject Tribal Rhetoric – Unite as Kenyans, not as members of tribes weaponized by politicians.
- Fair Resource Allocation – Develop all regions based on needs, not political favoritism.
- Fight Corruption Relentlessly – Demand accountability and transparency at all levels.
- Streamline Government Structures – Ensure institutions serve the people, not political interests.
- Hold Leaders Accountable for Economic Decisions – Demand full transparency on loans, expenditures, and fiscal policies.
- Enforce the Rule of Law – End political interference in law enforcement and judicial processes.
The chorus of End of Night serves as a powerful reminder: “Goodbye to the shadows, it was you who made me feel so trapped and confused…”
It’s time for Kenya to say goodbye to leaders who thrive on deception, division, and oppression. We must put an end to this darkness, and usher in a new era of hope and integrity. The night of political toxicity must end—but only if we choose to walk away.